Was just reading bella naija's blog and i noticed mrs trapped's story. i feel her pain but i cant help but wonder why in igboland, parents give away their children to the highest bidder. And most of these girls are soo materialistic its mindboggling. No offense but i am sick and tired of hearing all these stories about how marriages dont work out because most times the couple barely know each other. Most of these men are looking for trophy wives. They feel that Nigerian girls in the western world are "too exposed" to be their wives. That is just crap. And i think most of these men have complexes with themselves and they feel they need to have women that they can dominate. Well i really wish her all the best but i would recommend if there are no kids involved and if it seems they are not making head way in terms of communicating, no be by force to stay married. Maybe by coming to ogbodo oyingbo she is going to meet her real life partner.